After the stress of whether I should or should not mention my new lady friend on the blog, I informed her of this new venture on the blog and that she has been named (almost) and shamed..... I survived relatively intact.
Then later in the evening I received this photo she took while gardening (she's a professional gardener) at a place she was at yesterday afternoon.
Worrying......... but it had to be put on the blog for all to see!!